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You don’t really have to be the best to be appreciated.

You don’t really have to please everybody to be accepted.

You don’t really have to be popular to be respected.

You don’t really have to be beautiful and rich to have many friends.

You don’t really have to lose your self-respect just to fit in.

You don’t really need many people to feel loved.

Put your best effort in every little thing you do, you may not be called the best but you sure will be appreciated.

Remember, you cannot please everybody, if someone doesn’t like you, don’t stress yourself to much and just go on with your life and always put in your mind that there will always be people who will accept you for who you are.

Being popular is just a bonus, don’t aim in becoming one, instead, aim on being respected. If you respect people’s actions and decisions, you will also be respected.

 Being beautiful and rich may be a total “fit in” in the society but it won’t assure you of a content and successful life, especially with having many friends, I tell you, not all of them are going to be there in times of your darkest moments.

Never ever let people tell you what to do, and don’t let them break your own rules, to be able to keep your self-respect is far more important than fitting in.

There will always be people who will love you for you, no matter what. They may be few, but they will be always true.

(Source: pattiebear)

(Source: pattiebear)

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pattiebear:

Would you rather be cheated physically, or emotionally?

Sure, being in love is a wonderful thing. Of course, most people already know that so I just won’t elaborate much. There are just times, frequent times that we just tend to pass judgment regarding the things that we just saw or discovered about our partner. Cheating has always been an abominable thing no matter how you perceive it. The only thing that somehow lessens the pain regarding on what aspect you view this somewhat unforgivable act is if you think about it clearly, if it is either physical or emotional infidelity. Both seems hurtful right? but I’d rather be cheated physically than emotionally.

There are just some things that the eyes cannot see. Yes, the eyes are deceiving, it has always been like that. When you first saw him/her, you were attracted  by what you saw, right? But you used your emotions, your heart to love her and not for what he/she looks like but for who he/she really is.

Given the situation that you saw your partner with another woman, it’s your eyes that did the judging. You were deeply hurt, yes you were cheated on. But you didn’t know the whole story, you broke up, little thing you didn’t know, that it was YOU, it has always been you that he always loved, you are his great love, you just didn’t listen to him because you were blinded by the scenario running in your head, and that’s how deceiving our eyes can be. The other situation, you two were always together, you didn’t see him with other woman, he will always be faithful to you, or so you thought, so you’re happy—but your partner is not. He already fell out of love with you, he doesn’t love you anymore, he is in love with somebody else. He might be there for you physically but his heart and his mind is concentrated on another girl, the girl he wished was you.

Physical infidelity, hurts more, yes, because the truth is not always laid out in front of us, you have to discover it yourself. That’s how complicated and ironic life can be. The hurtful truth doesn’t seem to hurt us while the lies always do the bigger damage. It’s up to you if you believe what you see or you use deeper thinking and deeper understanding regarding the situation.